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[quote=Anonymous]My mother passed away when we were little so it was just me and my 3 brothers and dad most of my life. I cook the holiday dinners and host every year. We have no other family and my husband is extremely close with them all, in his words "they are more like family to him than his own." I feel guilty every holiday because we spend the actual day with my family and then go the weekend to his to visit. My thought behind it, is he has a large family that switches houses each year for who's hosting. We don't have that, if I'm not there, I feel like they won't get to have a holiday. My husband has never complained or said anything but I feel bad. We tried combining last year but recently my in-laws moved a few hours away to retire. They are having a huge thanksgiving with all of their family and we will plan to drive up Friday but will miss seeing a lot of them. Feeling torn. Thanks for reading. Any schedule suggestions would be appreciated! [/quote]
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