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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Having "ED" one night means nothing and can happen anyway. The problems from there are:
• Is it medical?  Anxiety begins. 
• Why did it happen?  Anxiety begins or continues. 
• Will it happen again? Anxiety continues and causes it to happen again. Purely psychological. 
• STUPID WOMAN: "It's me, isn't it?" – Causes insane amount of stress. The fear of it happening again, causing you to think it's because of you, will make it happen again tenfold.

Want to bring him back?  Play with his cock. Play with it soft. Suck it. Massage his balls. LOVE his small cock. Once he realizes you love his cock and are willing to suck it and lick it, even while flaccid, the problem will resolve itself.

Again, a doctor running a heart stress test still isn't a bad idea, but try the playing. [/quote]

Older male here with sudden onset of ED in early 50s.  I knew the reason though, didn't have anything to do with the wife.  The first part of this pp response regards the anxiety issue hits the nail on the head.  The more my wife kept making it about her, the more it stressed me and just became impossible for me to get an erection.

Mine was caused by a HS GF that started flirting with me heavily via email and sexting.  All of a sudden within a 24 hr period, all my sexual focus was on her.  I'm not able to focus sexually on more than one woman at a time.

Second part of pp was all wrong in my case.   Wife became very concerned, played with my cock and sucked for a long time.  Nothing at all would get me hard.  She insisted on taking me to the Dr.    She told the Dr point blank that she wanted me hard.   He prescribed Testosterone shots.  Still didn't help.  I couldn't get an erection until I broke off all the flirting with prior GF a few wks later.  Next day,  hard as concrete.  It was all in my head.[/quote]

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