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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so torn apart right now for my DH.  He literally has had a sudden onset of ED. His sex drive was through the roof. I mean probably abnormally high. Then BAM all of a sudden last week started losing erections (and then one night I made a [i]horrible[/i][b] mistake and made it about me, which I terribly regret because I realize that it was not me). I'm not sure if the ED is now psychological or what.  I've made him a drs appointment which he is very embarrassed about and says that he's not sure if he can talk about it. I might accompany him because this is really important and nothing to hide from the doctor!!!

PLEASE has anyone had success fixing ED???

My DH is in excellent shape. He is not overweight and he hits the weights at the gym regularly and he is under 40.  He is completely sick over this and I see him sinking into a seriously horrible place right now. My heart is breaking for him. As a man, his ability to please me has been something he has always been very proud of.  This is killing him.

Please tell me your stories.  I need to hear something positive right now.

What should do? Should I try to initiate sex and see if we can fix it? Should I back off?  He's been trying to initiate, but then gets sooo upset when it does not work that I think initiating is making it worse.  I don't know what to do!! This is not something people talk about and I fee so all alone trying to help him. I love him so much and I hate seeing him beat himself up. I'm 100% on board with helping him work through this. I don't look down on him for it. I want him to be happy again.[/quote]

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