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[quote=Anonymous]This isn't really helpful, but I can see this happening with my brother and SIL too. I am fairly certain that SIL is a narcissist and it's very hard to get any clarity about anything because she is constantly controlling and manipulating him with lies, half-truths, and petty reasons to take offense. She actively goes looking for problems and fights so that she has an excuse. She is constantly gaslighting him (and others), making them doubt themselves. I see him becoming isolated from us, blaming himself for anything that upsets her, slowly becoming more passive and degraded, until he hates himself and his life, but feels like everything is his fault and she is a saint. I see it happening, and I can't stop it. He even has caught her in multiple lies and very clear attempts at destroying his relationship with family members, and yet there's always an excuse and justification. He's a victim of a form of mental abuse and I have no idea how to stop it.[/quote]
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