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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's lying to you because he likes having your attention. He knows you still have feelings for him, it strokes his ego to have you waiting in the wings for him, and he knows that if he confirms they're engaged, you might cut off the "friendship." And he's getting mad because he has no real explanation/defense, so he's putting it back on you to make you feel crazy (ever heard of gas lighting?)/ If they had been engaged and called it off, he would have told you that. And if he was never engaged to her at all, do you really think he's going to keep dating someone who goes to such lengths to lie to the rest of the world about them being engaged?

Please end this friendship. It's only hurting you, and he wouldn't string you along like this if he really cared about you and respected you.[/quote]

OP here: Thank you for not being a bitch with your response like others. I get what you are saying and I do think a big reason is that he is scared I will stop talking to him and that he won't have me anymore because he tells me all the time how important a person I am in his life and how he wouldn't get through half the stuff he get's through without me in his life. I'm the first person he calls when he has a good day or a bad day or gets good news, etc. We've been best friends for 9 years. But at the same time, lying isn't okay and if he is going to think it's okay to lie to me, I don't want a friendship like that. [/quote]

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