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[quote=Anonymous]So a bit of a back story- my ex and I broke up 2 years ago but still talk. He started dating the girl he cheated on me with about a month after we broke up and we didn't talk for awhile after that. We started talking again about 6 months after we broke up and now talk about 2-3 times a day, EVERY single day. We are really close still and I consider him one of my best friends but the one issue we have is his current girl friend. He started talking to her online when we were still together. We broke up and he started dating her about 2 months later. I didn't find out about him dating her until 2 months after the fact because 1) we weren't really talking much and 2) he denied it until I had physical proof. I'm still friends with his sister on social media accounts (fb & Twitter) and about 7 months ago, she posted "I'm finally going to have a sister!" on twitter. When I asked him about it, he said he didn't know what she was talking about and that it wasn't true so I let it go. Well fast forward to about a week ago and I just had a feeling that it was true. I looked his new gf up on FB and low and behold, I can see "A**** is engaged to S****". I also can see some stuff on her timeline and one of them is a picture of a ring on her finger from MARCH with her updating her relationship to engaged. I called him right away and asked him about it and he's flat out denying it. He's saying he's not engaged and that it's not true and that he would tell me if it was true and blah blah blah. I actually got really upset when I saw her thing say that he was engaged. For awhile when we first started talking again, I still cared about him but I got over that after a while and we truly were just good friends. But the fact that me seeing her account saying "engaged", actually made me break down and cry and now I'm questioning my true feelings. We were together for almost 6 years and I thought that it would be me one day posting that him and I were engaged. I've been really upset about this for over a week now and we've been arguing about it and every time I bring it up, he says it's not true. I obviously don't believe him at all but have kind of let it go because I don't know what else to do? One of my friends says that he's a sociopath and a crazy liar and another friend says he's either flat out lying or that maybe they were engaged and broke it off but then that would make no sense of why it still says she's engaged to him. Can anyone give me any input here? There obviously is no other explanation for this then that he is lying but I don't get why he would just lie to me about this. He get's SO mad every time I bring it up now because he's frustrated that I don't believe him. It just makes no sense at all and I'm almost to the point of just ending our friendship because the fact that he would lie to me about being engaged for SEVEN months is just unbelievable.

Sorry for the long post but I would love to hear from anyone on their thoughts!![/quote]

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