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[quote=Anonymous]She may not know anymore, OP. Behavior is like that. Continuing to question her is futile. Why does someone smoke when it's unpleasant, socially unacceptable, life limiting and unhealthy? Expecting her to give you an expose into why she engages in inappropriate behavior is not helpful and it's not really going to solve the problem. If she knew...if anyone knew...they wouldn't do it. I appreciate that you've tried treatment plans, rewards, punishments, etc. But she's getting to an age -- adolescence -- where she knows what she has to do and I assume she's no dummy. She's going to have to click with this and take the reins. Continue to have her be in therapy, talk therapy, and with someone she trusts. One day she's going to decide she wants this to stop. There's a strong element of control with this that you need to let go of. Going to the bathroom is her decision. And she's the one who needs to work on this, not you.[/quote]
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