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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Aww honey. It's a really hard time in a marriage. It is really hard when the baby is in a mommy phase. Perhaps that is hurting your husband's feelings more than he lets on? Or he may just be feeling bad about himself and counterproductively flailing. Does he seem depressed? It sounds like both of you need a break-- from the kid and from each other. You are flailing and struggling and you need a breather to gather your thoughts. Can you carve out a set weekly time for each of you to get a break? For example, in our house I get Saturday mornings (DH takes DC grocery shopping) and DH gets Sunday mornings. It's a little oasis for each of us. Cut out some obligations from your life, if you can, and focus on getting enough rest. I would encourage you to hang in there. Little kids are tough on a marriage, especially if you haven't been married long, but you can ride it out. [/quote] I think this is wise advice.[/quote]
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