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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Do you work on your child, helping him to manage or confront bullying? Or, do you remove the child from an atmosphere where bullying is the norm? How much "character building" would you invest in before considering a move? What exactly would you ask of program administrators at an after school program? My son is exhausted when he gets home on the days he participates in this program. I picked him up one day and was surprised by how loud the place was, lots of rough play too. How do I help him find a place for himself within this structure? It's an important life skill. I'm just afraid of the emotional cost to him. [b]As a single mom, my concerns are routinely blown off, which doesn't help at all.[/b] I have no sense of how much is too much. I have to advocate for my child, but don't want to interfere in his developing important ways of coping either. Anybody BTDT? [/quote] What does the bolded sentence mean, OP?[/quote] OP here. The male caregivers in the aftercare program admonish me about coddling him. They say I need to leave room for him to "become a man." They assume that I am overprotective. My son is five years old, for goodness sake. Big for his age, sure, but still hardly able to manage himself in groups that go up to 8 and 9 years old. [/quote]
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