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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks for all the response. 
We didn't have many issues as I record until recently ( within a year). It may bottle up until now. Well, the examples I am giving here are what he told me but the underline issue is that he think I don't make effort to be a better person. And he thinks his way makes more sense most of the time and why I am not followed since I don't propose a better way. Although I agree some of his ways are more efficient but it just doesn't work with me and he never understands it. He said that he can't change me, only if I want to change myself. 
I feel like we are going into a circle every time we talk and I am very tired of repeating it because it just makes him angrier when we keeps repeating the same response. I can see this kind of talk is going to happen again with the same result. I need to find another way to deal with it but I don't know how.
DH admits he is perfectionist though. 
I feel like being trapped when we have a talk. He will question me the way that a normal person would say yes because it doesn't make sense to say no. Before I know it, it leads to the answer or agreement that he is right. Other than saying my brain doesn't work the same ways as his and that I am different than him, I don't know what else to say. It is very frustrated.  :cry:
To PP@12:25, I am not mail-order bride. Not sure what you are talking about. [/quote]

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