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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Losing their uncle with be less of an emotional blow than losing respect for you. When the kids are older - and it becomes known re: who cheated on who, then you have sent a message to your kids re cheating being ok. A huge message. Forget about your shortcomings - whatever that story is. Do not mention to your kids. They don't need to know.[/quote] Wow, totally off. My sister cheated on her husband. My ex-husband cheated on me. Thus my conflicted feelings and difficulty separating my own bias. And maybe my identification with my BIL and how unfair it seems to cast him out when my sister left him. Yes, I'm disappointed in my sister's behavior. And I'm angry, but then I remember that blame doesn't help. Both situations are more complicated than they seem. Neglect, emotional abuse, etc. Would I be setting a better example by disowning my sister for her poor choices? Kids are in the middle now. I still love my BIL, and so do my kids. It's a mess.[/quote]
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