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[quote=Anonymous]Op, my husband is the same, except he doesnt travel (but still does not participate much and likes to blame me). In the short run divorce is not an option for me, I sah, so here's how I counter all that: -never complain to my H- he will blame instead of supporting me. In fact the key was to stop expecting support from him. - do individual counseling so that I am more assertive- I stopped readily taking the blame, so it is easier to dismiss his stupid allegations. I just nod and move on, never argue. It does not make us closer, I must admit, as I feel like I am his employee and he is an annoying boss, but at least it spares me the fighting and all. I am lucky that my kid is relatively average, no special needs, but of course he has his moments.[/quote]
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