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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so tired of my DH blaming me for everything that he doesn't like or that might embarrass him about our children:

My DD has dyslexia- I didn't read to her enough when little 
My DS cries easily- I coddle him too much 
MY DS is skinny-- I don't feed him well enough 
MY DD doesn't seem to have a group of friends yet -- I don't do a good job of working on play dates, etc. for her 
My DS got a concussion in sports- I coddle him 
MY DS can't handle loud places well, making certain restaurants tough - I coddle him

To be fair, my son's sensitivities are sometimes difficult to deal with.  I am the parent at home and my DH travels a lot, so I play both parental roles a large portion of the time.   Trying to talk to him about this is pointless.  I try, but I am getting angrier and angrier and the kids are now at an age that they can see what is going on.    I am the only one who cooks, shops, does homework, arranges tutors, keeps up with their school, social, and extra-curricular needs.   Just a vent I guess.   [/quote]

I sympathize with you, but as the working spouse of a SAHM, it's also frustrating to have your parental suggestions dismissed out of hand because you're not home full-time and can't possibly be as knowledgeable as the SAHM.  Sometimes this stuff comes back in your face.

You have to find a way to co-parent for the sake of your kids.

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