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[quote=Anonymous]My DH works for a classic, textbook abuser (and I suspect a narcissist disorder).  While everyone else leaves, DH tolerates the abuse. Which I find very troubling because a healthy person IMHO would not put up with such treatment.

It's a very lucrative job, but totally dependent on this man.  Basically, he is the client and you have to do what he says or else...

What's worse this man and his family slowly over the years became friends of family and we go on vacations together occasionally and are invited to all their parties.  This guy tries hard to behave in public so I did not learn what he is really like until last few years.

After I learned I tried to only hang out with his wife and child.  And now he views me as a threat and hates me - I'm bad influence on his wife, giving her ideas that she can go out and be around people.  He doesn't let her have any friends or go out, not even with me.

We still see each other occasionally with his wife, but now his daughter is starting to exhibit the same behavior. I'm afraid it's bad for my child and I worry that she will learn to tolerate this behavior like DH.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.[/quote]

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