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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't be surprised if she remains in denial for a while at least. I was molested by a relative and no one believed me until he was accused by another person.[/quote] Brace yourself for reactions that might be very upsetting. My family reacted in unhelpful ways when I reported a relative's abuse. I was 12 when I reported the abuse. He'd abused my sisters and me for years. From that point forward, I became a "slut." My sisters joined in, even though they were also victims. They still view me as a slut, which is especially interesting, since one of them was actually somewhat complicit in my relative's abuse of me. Obviously, you can't get through this kind of experience without some scars, but it helped that no one else in my life viewed me as a slut - classmates, etc. Outside my family, people consider me to be conservative and even prudish.[/quote]
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