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[quote=Anonymous]I believe that the purpose of life is for us to learn and grow. Sometimes a no happens because we will learn more from a no than a yes. When I graduated college, I had a part time gig not in my field and was literally living off of $500 a month (fortunately did not have to pay rent or would have been homeless). I went on tons of interviews and either never got the job or felt strongly that I should say no (that one was really hard). It took me 9 months to find something. Trust me, there were a lot of prayers. When I finally did find a job, it was a just okay fit. I stayed for one year, but was very unhappy there and began looking 10 months in for something different. I literally interviewed for only one job. I landed it and moved across the country and it made my career. All subsequent success had been tied to that job. The thing is that if I had found a different job when I was first looking, 1) I wouldn't have been available when dream job opened up. 2) I wouldn't have worked at my crappy first job, which happened to give me the exact right experience for dream job, and 3) I wouldn't have been on enough interviews to know right away that dream job was perfect and might have passed on it. That difficult time sucked in the moment, but taught me a great deal personally and professionally. So when you get a "no." The answer isn't to ask "why;" it is to look inward: "what do I need to learn?"[/quote]
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