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[quote=Anonymous]Have you said to him - "We're in this together, we each need to have a plan A, B & C to contact each other to deal with these situations. What's your A, B, & C?" That puts both the shared-responsibility and the solution in his court. I sounds like he thinks you're trying to control too much. If that doesn't work, then you may have to have a broader "we're in this together and need to figure out how to do this parenting thing better" conversation. It's one thing he's just not used to doing it (perhaps he got used to you doing too much during maternity leave), another if he can't be a team player. [/quote]
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