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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh, normally I would say just brush it off, but I used to get this vibe off of my step mom from time to time, like she'd suddenly go cool on me, and I'd think and think "did I do something?" and DH etc would always say "nah, there's nothing you could have said or did" but recently, she just blew up at me and just started unleashing this list of grievances she'd built up over the years - very specific stuff like "when we were out to dinner one evening I said your son did good at school and you said yes, he's done well, like you think you have to correct my grammar" and a seriously long list of slights - some I could remember and some I had absolutely no idea what she was talking about, like looking at her funny when she said something, etc. The thing is, I was completely floored - I really care about her and never would have done anything to hurt her on purpose.

Generally I think spider sense is usually accurate. If you care about your MIL, I guess just give her a call. It may not have been about you, but it may have been. I wish my step mom would have given me a chance to at least address her concerns when they happened. I would have never hurt her on purpose but, hearing about things years later, I can't defend myself, don't even remember what she might have been talking about.

Good luck! I hope it's nothing. [/quote]

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