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[quote=Anonymous]I feel similarly about my SIL. The way I look at it, is we can only control ourselves. We can't control other people, or their responses. You can be as kind as you want to someone. As charitable as you want to them. As supportive, encouraging, and inclusive as you can be. You still can't affect other people or change them. It's futile, and some people are just impermeable. It's useless for me to get upset or frustrated by that wall - even if they think I'm the enemy. Sometimes nothing is sufficient. If I've gone a mile and you haven't even gone a centimeter, I'm hands off. Try no more. The problem isn't me.[/quote]
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