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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes a non-answer IS your answer and I think that's the case here. He's "told" you he doesn't want any contact, let alone a relationship, through his actions. If you need to write him a letter for closure, then write it all out. Sending it is not what provides the closure. It's getting all the feelings out. [/quote]

OP here.  Are you saying to write the letter - to get it all out - but not send it?[/quote]

I thought you don't have contact info for him, so where do you plan to send it? You're the one who seems to feel a need for 'closure" not me. If it were me (and it has been) I'd drop it. You seem incapable of dropping it. So fine, then get out all your feelings in a letter (hell, make an iMovie, whatever). Obviously you can't send it since you said you don't have his contact info. [/quote]

OP said that she had enough information so that she could find contact information for him if she wanted to -- but that she had not done so yet.[/quote]

OP here.  This exactly.  I feel pretty confident that I could locate him if I tried.  I thought that the suggestion of writing a letter - even with no intention of sending it - was an interesting one, PP 16:11.  Apologies if my brief response implied otherwise, I was just checking to see if that was what you meant.  Made me think of therapies I have heard about.[/quote]

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