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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back when you were interested and him not, why did you concede to his (temporary) low-sex preference?
For sure it was completely wrong of him to unilaterally decide that both of you should have no sex.
But for your part, it was a big mistake that did not "fight" for your marital sexual relationship.
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How do you make a man have sex with you when he doesn't want to? Do you really think it is dignified for a wife to have to crawl and beg for sexual attention after she has been turned down? Are you proposing marital rape, or is there some other method to force a man to desire you when the desire is not there at that moment?

[quote=Anonymous]OP, do you want your husband to feel the level of rejection you felt?

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No. We are beyond that. We are to the point where I don't care and I don't want it to be an issue.

[quote=Anonymous]I think you CAN be interested in intimacy again OP, it is just that you fell into a certain habit of not being intimate for such a long time, that you had no choice but to accept it + that is what you ended up doing. It became your way of life and the status quo.

And now, suddenly your husband wants to change things around again which I think is really unfair. You are not a light switch that can go on and off on demand.
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Yes, that is exactly what it is. I had to accept the situation, and now that I have fully accepted it, I feel it's time to leave it as it is. 
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