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[quote=Anonymous]I think you CAN be interested in intimacy again OP, it is just that you fell into a certain habit of not being intimate for such a long time, that you had no choice but to accept it + that is what you ended up doing. It became your way of life and the status quo.

And now, suddenly your husband wants to change things around again which I think is really unfair. You are not a light switch that can go on and off on demand.

Humans are creatures of habit and especially after five years, it will take some time for you to get back to that place you once were at. If you ever can get there.

I would ask your husband to be patient w/you as time passes. Have him make an extra effort in the bedroom to make your sex life come alive again. New tricks of the trade. New positions. Etc. Be creative. See where it goes from there.

If all else fails and you still are at a standstill, then as a last resort you can try talking to a professional if you feel comfortable.

Other than that, your options would be pretty much be used up.

And it wouldn't be your fault at all OP. It would be your husband's loss in the end.[/quote]

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