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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Happily married and faithful for 15 years to a very decent man.

So there is a guy at work and we have developed a friendship over the past 6 months.
He is also married, and[b] I will admit he is quite attractive.
I really like him as a friend, but am not seeking out an affair.[/b]

We have gone out to lunch a few times, which is not terribly unusual at my workplace. 
Alot of my coworkers will grab lunch together, in groups or just 2, on various days.
Ordinary team building and this is not really any big deal, married or not, right?

But yesterday this man reached out and touched my hair, in a romantic gesture.
I pulled away, but things immediately got "awkward" if you can imagine.

Has this ever happened to anyone?
Especially other married women, has anybody ever made such a direct move on you?
What should I do now that the "line" has been crossed?[/quote]

I think it's interesting that you define him in part through relationship based criteria: availability, attractiveness, and strength/duration of friendship. Then you say you're not looking for an affair. Say what you want on this forum, but if you're honest with yourself, your affair has already begun.[/quote]

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