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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can't imagine having "a talk" about masturbation.  It's not something that one explains to children other than to tell them it's done in private when you see them doing it in public.  It's not something you provide instruction or background in.  They don't need "the facts of life" on masturbation.  They either explore their bodies or they don't.  [b]There's no double standard that I know of other than the fact that males tend to (on average) masturbate more than female adolescents.[/b][/quote]

And does this belief in this double standard cause you to voice specific comments to your daughter? "Wow, your bedroom door is always closed." - "Mom! But so is my brother's but you never say that to him!" In this sense, she walks away with more guilt feeling that her door shouldn't be closed but it's okay if her brother's door is closed.

And btw I think your double standard is wrong. I masturbated at least once daily if not twice from like 12-18. In the summer months at home it was closer to 3-4x a day. The problem is that girls are simply ashamed or embarrassed to admit their frequency. And I think this is sad that they feel this way.

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