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[quote=Anonymous]This is inspired by the other "Doing the M" thread. I perceived some gender bias in that thread.

I'm a 40yo mom of one 13yo DD. I personally grew up with very religious parents and was shamed after being caught masturbating and this forever impacted my sex life. I decided to take a different path with our daughter: she's known current terms, including for the clitoris, since she was able to start asking such questions. And if she was ever observed doing intimate self-stimulation, she was kindly asked to resume the activity in private. Now she knows better and just goes to her room, closes the door, and does what she does. It's none of my business. But I know she hasn't been shamed at all for her sexuality.

I guess I just wonder to what extent the moms here may have a double standard in regards to their DS or DD:

Did you have the talk, especially about masturbation, with one gender and not the other?
Is masturbation in any way more admissible, either consciously or unconsciously, for your DS and not your DD?
Do you worry more about your DD's bedroom door being closed all the time and not DS? 
Does your DD feel she can masturbate without shame?
Does your DD feel she can masturbate without shame as frequently as she wants?  [/quote]

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