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[quote=Anonymous]Some people are more likely to initiate than others.  And some people are more likely to throw events than other people.

In my large social circle, there are lots of events - birthday parties, BBQ's, concerts, happy hours, etc.  We all take turns initiating, and basically once you've gone to a few/many things and people like you, you're on the radar for people and you get more invites.  But sometimes you have to be brave enough to ask someone if you can come to something you've heard about but not gotten an invite for.  (I'm always happy to extend an invitation for something if it's not a closed event.)

If you're on the shy/quiet/reserved/introverted/ relates better one-on-one side, you might be getting overlooked when people are doing invites because you're not making a big impression and when they're combing through their minds for who was at the last thing, you're not coming to mind.  Or they have small events and you're not making the cut just because they'd have to cut someone else that they know better.  [/quote]

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