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[quote=Anonymous]This is not my first post on this but I am ready to lose it.. Sorry.
DH going to happy hour for over a year with out my knowledge...I didn't know to ask so he didn't tell. He would leave work early to go so that he would arrive home at regular time.

He refused to call it happy hour until yesterday when he brought it up. He was just grabbing a beer or 2 or 3. I said going to 7-11 is grabbing a beer. Whatever.

He went to other places- clubs , restaurants with his secretary. When I found out all of this on my own,when going through credit card statements, first he denied, then he was alone, then He was with his secretary. He admitted none of it was work related.
I have been taking care of things, making repairs around the house etc. he is very remorseful and we are in counseling. I have been civil but disengaged during this time.

Fast forward 4 months? He is on a business trip out of state. He has been enjoying the nightlife, he texts me that anyway. He is literally harrassing me to give him my blessing for him to begin going to happy hour again! I NEVER stopped him. He says" you have to forgive me and move on so I can enjoy my life by going to happy hour." Seriously? I told him that I never said he couldn't go and he has to do what he wants to do to be happy. He said I don't want him to go, and (get this) "this is exactly why I lied to you about it in the first place!"
How do I even respond to that? I said you do what you want to do. You can either continue to go and lie about it- I will never know, or tell me when you go.. Choice is his not mine. He says I have to be happy about it. He absolutely can not understand that he sounds like a 5 year old in a toy store.[/quote]

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