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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a guy and in a very similar situation.  It sucks.  I was in a 4 month relationship with a girl and I'd never liked anyone so much before.  She broke it off, but left it sort of open-ended: she said she needed time and space and mentioned about potentially starting over in a couple months.  I reached out after 2 months, but she was pretty dismissive.  It turns out she's seeing someone else...based on Facebook.  I didn't de-friend her, but I turned off her feed.  It just hurt seeing pictures of her and a new guy.

As others have said, the fact that you "did everything [you] could to make him like [you]" is a bad sign.  The right person would appreciate you for you.  I feel like I did the same with my ex.  I did everything I could to make her happy, but for her, it just wasn't enough.  As other have pointed out, you'l often never know or have closure...  But, life goes on...

A friend told me recently that just because you feel a connection, it doesn't mean it's the right connection...this seems to make sense, but it still makes things tough.

I'm personally really bummed about my situation as well, but I'm thinking time will help and just trying to enjoy your own life and meet new people.  I've also been on many dates since the break-up, but no connection with anyone yet...     [/quote]

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