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[quote=Anonymous]First + foremost I want to say I am sorry that you are going through this OP. Breaking up is tough enough, however when you are the one who didn't initiate the break~up plus you are completely in the dark over why the break~up even occurred is probably one of the crummiest feelings in the world.

I know you think you can be friends w/this guy, but be honest w/yourself. After having such an "intense" romantic relationship w/him, it would be next to impossible for you to maintain just a standard "friendship" w/him. So I can completely understand him not wanting to be friends at this point. It's in your best interest as well.

Your feelings toward him are very raw at this point and in order for you to even have a platonic relationship ONLY w/him, you would need to spend a significant amount of time apart first.

Anyway, your desire for closure is 100% understandable + I think you totally deserve to know why he ended things so abruptly w/no explanation.

However such is life and as we all know, life is seldom if ever fair.
So at this point, hoping for closure will be just a waste of time and energy.

You need to find that closure within yourself. Tell yourself that you did everything humanly possible to be a loving and loyal romantic partner to this man. For him, it was simply not enough. And that is on him...Not on you.

Now you need to move on + focus your energy on someone who is worthy of yourself. Because obviously this guy wasn't. A man who just lets someone go w/out being decent enough to give an explanation is not someone you want to spend your future w/at all. There are many quality people out there who matter and this guy just doesn't. [/quote]

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