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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Cassiopeia]"I did everything I could to make him like me"

You shouldn't have to do anything to make someone like you. They should like you the way you are. This guy left because he didn't want a relationship with you. That's okay and not something you should feel bad about. You don't have to be everything to everyone.

Closure is being okay with this relationship ending. The fact that you felt you had to change yourself for him should make you okay with it ending. Lots of guys out there are looking for someone exactly like you, just the way you are, no "making him" necessary. You just have to find them. Focus on being yourself, authentically you, and liking that person. Then you'll be ready for another relationship. Don't look for one until you're ready.

In the meantime, give some thought to what you want in a man. Not an exhaustive white knight laundry list, but a few simple and basic qualities you would like him to have. Turn the focus back on you and what you need, rather than this guy and why he left. Ultimately you are more important. [/quote]

+1 [/quote]

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