Reply to I like my coworker and he's part of the top management?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "I like my coworker and he's part of the top management?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote]No no no, he never said "girls", it's ME who says it. He says "women", because let's be honest here, he's a lot older than me. 13 years older, I think. 
I cannot ask him out, that would be waaaaay suspicious.[b] I position myself as the tender young girl type. Not trying to show off but I'm most likely the soul of our company[/b] (at least based on the day when I celebrated my birthday), but I still position myself a bit differently, so I'm sure he'd be very surprised to say the least if I were to ask him out.[/quote]

I'm sure that a young woman in her twenties is over inflating herself by assuming she is the soul of anything.

Your OP is like a bad romance novel where you are the flawless heroine. That sends up all kinds of red flags that the situation you think and wish to be true likely bears little resemblance to reality.

In this situation, stay away from dating in a workplace. I've never heard of an HR director who was "more than supportive" of office romances, except in Lifetime movies. It never ends well, except in Lifetime movies. Which brings up something else. Your entire post is like a plot from a Lifetime movie. You think he's righteous because he likes theatre and brings up serious topics during lunch? You have false modesty about your jeans and shirts compared to his snow white shirts and Hugo Boss pants? Seriously?

You sound about 12 and too immature for either a real relationship or an adult job.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics