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[quote=Anonymous]I've been with my husband 5yrs, married for 2. I'm very into fantasizing, dirty talk, etc. He indicated that he had some freak in him but then was just conservative. I thought at first he just needed time to get comfortable with me. As time went on I realized he really wasn't into anything other than plain, quiet sex. The man never made a sound! After a few years and lots of talks, he finally started letting loose. A little at first, then a little more, until he was actually coming up with his own fantasies and talking openly about them during sex. Fast forward about a year and a half later... He started a new job and was in DC for a month for training. We texted frequently and talked or skyped every day. He was constantly telling me the entire time he was gone that he missed me and was going to do all these things to me when he got home. Then he came home and nothing! In the first week and a half we had sex twice and both times were only because I was aggressive in my initiating. He had completely regressed to where he was the first 2yrs! I understand he started a new job and was probably really stressed about that, but he got comfortable with it within a few months. Now, another year and a half later, he still has not gone forward *at all* to where he'd gotten before. I'm soooo confused by him. He expresses desire and we do have sex, but the minute I try to go anywhere near any type of talk or fantasy he won't respond at all. He gets very uncomfortable and I don't want to make him feel that way, so I have to keep it all in my head, which only disconnects me from him, so I don't want that either. If he went there before, and it was obvious at the time he enjoyed it, why won't he do it again??? I figured something had to've happened in DC, but idk what, and I don't meant cheating because he's loyal to a fault. Can anyone shed any light on what the deal is or what to do? I've tried talking to him about it but he always says he doesn't know what happened. /Sigh....[/quote]

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