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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]this can't really be a serious question.  you were the OW.  you got to be fucked whenever your AP wanted to bust a nut.  and you actually think he had real feelings for you despite the truth/fact that he went back to save his marriage.

please.  fixing yourself is the only thing you need to worry about - and understand why you eagerly let yourself be a doormat, since you're in control of your own actions and behavior.[/quote]

Look I'm not saying an affair is a good thing, but it's entirely possible the man had feelings for her.  It's not always JUST sex.  There's a lot in between the man leaving his wife and the man "busting a nut."  [/quote]

did he leave his wife?  no, he went back to his wife.  please, let's not look for more into something that was pretty simple and basic - it was sex and she filled a need for him.

does it come across harsh?  yes, I get that.  but let's be honest about what it was.  sparing feelings doesn't help anything - OP has to stop the self-destructive  behavior if she wants to have a real meaningful and fulfilling relationship.[/quote]

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