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[quote=Anonymous]Do what you can realistically do, but after that let it be. It might set expectations lower and trust me, for the rest of your life, it is easier to live up or surpass low expectations. MILs are human too. Mine is a perfectionist in her own house. I also try and impress her but it is like setting myself up for failure. Now, I just tell her, "Mom, I do not know how you do it - everything is perfect in your house. I do not have any talent for it" And she hurries to assure me that I am too busy and things will change when my kids are grown up. You are responsible for only one thing - not to stress out and not to stress your spouse out. Laugh at your shortcomings and be warm to ILs. Deflect criticism by pointing out how you tried to prep for their visit by stashing stuff away. Seriously, keeping a clean house requires lots of time and effort - everyday. If you can't do it - give your self a break. [/quote]
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