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[quote=Anonymous]Not sure what to do. Sister recently sent presents for my baby.
• Returning them would be a huge slap in the face. Not worth it. 
• thank you card would be weird & stilted. 
• sending gifts back for her dc would encourage the relationship. Right?
• Other options?

The story is that she's always been insecure, manipulative, immature, mean spirited, and our personalities just don't go well together at all. I have tried for years and years to build some relationship between us, but she always f'ks it up. She's abusive to animals and borderline negligent to her dc. In the past year, she purposely frightened my dc, who was an infant at the time. It sounds dumb, but she caused dc hours of crying and an awful day after we put in a huge effort to see her. Since then, I just gave up on the relationship. Didn't say anything, didn't make a scene, just stopped picking up. She periodically keeps at it though like sending messages or mailing little things.

She also has a dc. Both kids are too young to have any clue about "presents" from people, remember each other, etc.

Wwyd?[/quote]

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