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[quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure whether I'm being too sensitive or not... DH and I had a good relationship, but after the birth of our baby (8 months ago), things have been very, rocky...lots of general grumpiness and arguments from both of us. We love each other, but the past several months have tested our devotion. Fortunately, in the past couple of weeks, things had started improving. Until...

I recently discovered that DH tried to have sex with another woman while traveling for work a couple months ago. I haven't yet asked him about it, but I've become paranoid because my absolute trust in him has been shattered. (From what I could tell, logistical issues prevented them from actually getting together). In my "what else don't I know about" paranoia, I've started combing through all of his social media posts, and discovered photos he took before we were together, with his ex girlfriend, whom he loved deeply. There are also posts on his Facebook about her, but she isn't in his Friends list.  (Though they are connected on LinkedIn)

I'm debating whether I should ask him to take the photos down or not. Does anyone have any advice/thoughts, either pro or con?

DH is someone who practically grilled me on how I know each of my Facebook friends, and let me know that he is not OK with my being friends with Ex-es. (He has another work trip next month, so I plan to wait until he returns to discuss what I learned about his planned tryst from this past summer.)

The funny thing is that I'm normally pretty easy-going, and might not have cared much about the photos at all, if it hadn't been for his attempted tryst!
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