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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Op here, Interesting enough I have suggested this in the past. These outings actually never came to fruition. I am not concerned with someone taking my place. I have my own mum and feel that there is room in MIL's heart for all of us. [b]I don't expect her to give me play by play of every interaction that she has with them. That would be crazy. But I do expect honesty and think it's weird that after I talk to you on the phone. I find out that you aren't actually going to xyz place as you mentioned but that you have a spa day with SIL or potential SIL.[/b] I'm surprised that I'm the only one that finds this weird. I'm also surprised that I'm being labeled the problem.[/quote]

This is where you're being dishonest, OP. You do expect a play by play of her day and she if she doesn't give it to you, you accuse her of being dishonest. This is nonsense on your part. She doesn't owe you any explanation of her contact with her other DILs or potential DILs. It isn't your business what she does unless she chooses to tell you. Stop being passive aggressive and saying you don't care about their every interaction while keeping score and judging your MIL and how she spends her time.

Yes, OP, you are the problem here.[/quote]

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