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[quote=Anonymous]What would happen if you acknowledged the legitimacy of her feelings? That's not the same thing as saying you're doing something wrong, just acknowledging that there are pros and cons to everyone's situation here. "I hear you. it has to be really tough being the only one here to do the grunt work all day without a break, and then watch me walk in after work and be the hero to [kid], regardless of who's been tending to his/her every need all day." No fighting, no competing for who has it worse, just acknowledging that there are tough aspects to her situation, and it's understandable that she's frustrated. You might see her attitude toward you change dramatically if she feels like she's being heard, respected, and shown compassion.[/quote]
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