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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a 40 year old divorced woman with two children.  For the past eight months I have been actively dating to try to find someone I have a connection with to spend time and hang out with.  I am not necessarily looking for a long term relationship but I certainly would not oppose it if I met someone I liked.  I have been on quite a few dates and am really struggling to find someone I 'like'.  I am attractive so initially I do have not have too much of a problem finding someone to go on a date with (online) however, I haven't felt any kind of connection with anyone.  I am dating a wide variety of people and don't think I am too selective but am finding myself frustrated because I would really like to meet someone.

Not sure what I am looking for exactly so maybe this is just a vent.  Anyone relate?  [/quote]

Any man or woman who is reasonably attractive and sociable can find a date but do you want quantity or quality?  Also, are you giving people, including yourself a chance?  I categorize first dates three ways:  1)  wow, 2) want to learn more about them - has potential, and 3)  no way.  #1 is very infrequent on anyone's life.  #2 you don't want to cut off.[/quote]

Op here.  Definitely want quality - I am not a serial dater.  I would prefer to date only one person instead many.  I feel I have given some of the guys a chance and have been on more than one date with a few of the guys to see if there was anything there.  I am fully aware that I myself would be coming into a new relationship as not an 'ideal' partner for many people:  divorced, kids.  In fact someone who initially contacted me didn't want to meet me in I guess my point is that [/quote]

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