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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP  here-

when i say "they punted issues bc they were tired of fighting", i mean during the engagement/wedding planning process that she would call me hysterically crying and upset night after night because of arguments, 99% of the time over boundaries with his mother/parents, and her response to me was always:

"i just want to get this wedding over with already."

it seems to me that she didn't see (or want to see) that the issues weren't going to magically go away after the wedding. the issues preceded the engagement, and would continue to persist after the marriage. the issues weren't just 'wedding issues.'

anyhoo, i will always support her bc she is my best friend. and part of that means reading her latest texts today about how dh is choosing his parents over her again. sigh.[/quote]

That sucks, OP. That said, weddings do seem to bring out the best in people, such that any issues that exist outside the event itself get amplified.

Do they live in the same town as the parents? [/quote]

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