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[quote=Anonymous]Borderlines have a way of making those they are close to out to be either an angel or a villain. Likely your brother's girlfriend makes him feel wonderful when he's the angel, which is why it is hard for him to leave. I would definitely recommend therapy for your brother. DH spent years in therapy for help with a borderline mother. He also had to set very clear and firm boundaries and cease contact for a while in order to salvage the relationship. It wasn't until we were married and had children and he heard stories of my upbringing that he realized how messed up his childhood and mother were. That, and therapy, encouraged him to put his foot down and remove himself from the relationship. Therapists have also recommended the book "Walking on Eggshells." DH found it helpful.[/quote]
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