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[quote=Anonymous]My brother has an (undiagnosed) narcissistic BPD and he recently cheated on his wife. If SIL calls, even just to vent, we listen and reassure her that she is doing the right thing by getting away from my brother. I've basically disowned him because of how manipulative he is. Others don't see what kind of person he is because of how good he is at manipulating to get what he wants. That's the hallmark of BPD. I worry he'll go off the deep end too and he's pretty close to doing that. He already removed the guns from their house before he moved out and I'm afraid he'll hurt someone or himself. I have nightmares about it. Unfortunately in this case it took an egregious offense (cheating) for SIL to consider leaving. There are some codependency issues and if he had not cheated I have no doubt they would still be together despite how unhealthy their relationship is.[/quote]
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