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[quote=Anonymous]I think he is saying he is close to the breaking point.

I think your saying you don't do threats you just go with it could be a slight clue to your personality - you're direct and to the point and take no BS kind of person?

Look ,as others have said, you're in the worst of it, times two.  That first year is hard.  HARD.  What's key is to respect your partner and form a team.  It sounds as if you are not a team.  And he is reaching his breaking point.

I'd seriously evaluate where you are in this relationship.  Do you want it to continue?  If so, stop arguing over stuff that doesn't matter.

There's a saying - do you want to be right or be happy?

Let go some of being right over stupid stuff that doesn't matter and concentrate on being happy.  What would being happy look like, feel like, for you?

Therapy might be the only way to get this back on track.  Based on what you've written, I'm not sure you can step back and take a perspective on what is happening now and figure out how to get out of these destructive patterns.  It would be hard for anyone to do so, but in the midst of infant twins nearly impossible.

Please consider therapy.  [/quote]

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