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[quote=Anonymous]I think this is complicated. Some people care more about having kids than having a good relationship. Kids will definitely strain the relationship and I don't think you know if they will bring you closer or be the final straw that breaks the relationship. And as I have found out, I love my son so dearly, but I never would have expected how challenging and life changing having kids can be. If you accept and understand this, and really want kids with him and are on the same page with him on this, go forward I suppose. I agree counseling first would be good if possible. Might help you sort some of this out. I have to say though, usually when someone sees a bunch of red flags, I think it means the relationship is likely doomed. Though definitely not in all cases. I have seen some work out and seen great relationships not work out so you never know, but starting with red flags seems more likely not to work out. [/quote]
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