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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sincerely curious to know why those of you who are not happy with your spouses married those people. Did the relationship deteriorate over time, or were your problems present before your marriage, and were you aware of them and thought/hoped they would get better? If it's the latter, did you choose to ignore red flags because you felt like that person was your last chance at marriage and family?

My marriage is fairly new. I chose to ignore some red flags before we were married, feeling like if I wanted to have a family it was too late to start over with someone else. He felt like the last train leaving the station, and I think on some level he felt the same way about me. Plus - while troubled, he is a good person, and I couldn't bring myself to hurt him by leaving. Some days I feel like I've made a mistake, and some days I don't. We are trying to start a family and there are moments when I find myself thinking twice about it. [/quote]

Get yourself into counseling right away.  Kids put a strain on marriage.  Even on the best ones.  You need to know how to deal with that before you have kids.[/quote]

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