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[quote=Anonymous]Agree that you are both wrong. Yes, it is very nice to see the families where all the in-laws get along but not everyone has that and you have to accept that you don't have that and will not have that. Yes, your MIL needs to get over the wedding but your DH needs to tell her to do that. You also need to think about your behavior -- do you talk about your mother a lot when she is around? Why? Maybe try complimenting your MIL? Sounds like she does a lot for you guys and is good with the kids? Maybe she just wants some acknowledgment of her role in your lives. Look, I get where you're coming from -- my MIL has been holding a grudge from the wedding for 15 years. My mom passed away before I got married but she hates my step mother and she is barely respectful to my father. They all said hello (and that's it) at dc's bris and first couple bday parties. We moved away so they haven't seen each other since. I am dreading dc's upcoming bar mitzvah where they will all be in the same room for several functions over a weekend. My point is: it could be worse :).[/quote]
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