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[quote=Anonymous]Get out before baby #2. Don't leave him off birth certificate (you both know he's the dad, he'll want a relationship with the child, it's a passive aggressive move, etc.). He won't get custody. He may get shared custody. Be prepared for that. But not if he moves out of state. He sounds underemployed and largely unmotivated in life. He will approach attorney fees and the custodial battle similarly. i.e., he'll kick up a huge verbal fuss and then not go through with or muck up the legal process. As scary as it sounds, I wouldn't worry about that part. He sounds like he loves DC #1. Hopefully he will with DC #2. If he's as good of a parent as you say, he could make a good co-parent. He may fall apart without you there to keep daily life running though, so don't count on him. Arrange help with family and move on. As a father, he sounds loving. That's great. As a partner, he sounds like dead weight. Sorry to be blunt. Good luck.[/quote]
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