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Sigh. My grandmother squandered her few million euros, then sued her children for support. Since they couldn't bear to see their mother on the street (however unlovable - she had done nothing for them), they cobbled together a much simpler but acceptable lifestyle for her.

I would consult with your siblings and agree on a plan. That way he doesn't get dribbles of random money from each of you. Everything has to be documented, no one gives more than they can afford, and he should know that there is a set amount every month and NOTHING beyond that. A business agreement, in fact. Leave the emotional stuff out of it.

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I like this approach OP. OP you said that your father Has been away from the family for ten years. I am assuming that you are an adult. What was your father like before he disappeared ten years ago?  Did he take care of you and your siblings and help you become productive adults?  If so, remember that part of your father. Money he spent on his girlfriend was not yours. It was his. I would suggest keeping  it simple and only give what you can. if you can't afford it, you can't afford it. He will survive on his social security. [/quote]

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