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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this isn't about marijuana. This is about addiction and the behaviors that go along with it. If you wrote your post over again and substituted "gambling" or "collecting dolls" in placing of smoking weed, you'd still have a spouse that has lied, spent money that you don't have and is defensive all the time. He's doing what addicts do: transferring the issue onto you. He's shutting you out and being dishonest with everyone, including himself.

Get yourself to Al-Anon or some other type of support group for family members of addicts. 
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Well, the thing is I already understand ALL of this. I see what he is doing and I get the whole thing.

I want to hear from an actual user who is NOT doing these things. I want to see what a NON addict does. I know what Im dealing with. I want to see what it would look like to deal with a real user who is not an addict. I have a feeling it would be entirely doable for me. once I have something in hand that sounds like what DH thinks he is, then I will be able to show him this is what being a user looks like according to an actual user.

Im looking for a credible account of a user. Will it help DH "see the light"? Probably not. But I just want, for the record, a description not from me of a use pattern that I could live with. Then at least I would have stated what I was TOLD it was going to be and that this is a realistic expectation from someone who is in fact a recreational user and not an out and out addict.

Also, there IS a range. I get that too.[/quote]

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