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[quote=Anonymous]Dude, just tell her since she makes the restrictions, to create a time once a week of her choosing when all conditions are met, and you'll be ready.

And tell her you love her and desire her and want to have a physical relationship with her.

If that doesn't work, just find a quiet time and ask her what's the matter.

It might be an issue in your relationship or it might be that she doesn't feel sexy anymore.

Regarding the latter, what I've come to realize is that there is a big difference between what society expects women to look like to be sexy, and what a typical DH expects.  My DH does not care about me having been showered and made up and totally in shape etc etc…but I (and many women) have been trained by our culture to think we have to be perfect (or at the least, be what we USED to be) in order to be attractive.  The pressure is on to perform, and that's tough to get over.  Just help her get over that.

The best thing that my DH said to me was in passing.  I noticed a hair around my areola area and I was horrified and he said, "You're a mammal!" LOL just took the wind right out of my potential insecurity attack.[/quote]

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